After looking at your photos. I suggest you position the grey swivelling clasp in the horizontal position. Then insert the connector and swing the grey clasp 90 degrees to the vertical position the same it is in the photos.

Then the special tabs will grab and push the connector in.

Before the clasp will move you need to release the black plastic catch which stops it from moving. Then the connector clasp will swing frreely.

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